Don't ask, don't tell

Apparently I am very good at keeping secrets... or actually I am very good at not telling secrets. I am extremely bad at hiding I keep a secret.

In all actuality I do want to tell everything I know, but there's a couple of things stopping me:

• is it appropriate to just spill the beans?
• trust is big virtue for me, and I associate keeping something inside with being more trustworthy than just gossiping around
• sometimes whatever you think is a big secret, is actually not; I feel you can lose face if your big news is in fact not so big

So basically if you ask the right questions, you can get loads and loads of information from me